The 12th of May is the day we celebrate the women who raised us. They dedicate their lives to us, they’re selfless yet strong, they’re affectionate and protective…
It goes without saying that being a mother is one of the toughest, most rewarding jobs out there.
But one day isn’t enough to show our gratitude for all their hard work and sacrifices to make us happy, safe, and well. They do so much for us, and sometimes, we don’t even realise that. So the least we can do is honor them whenever we get the chance.
So this year’s Mother’s Day: a day to celebrate the mothers in our lives, the one who gave birth to us, the one who adopted us, the one we picked to be our mother or who volunteered to step up for the role because ours was not available to us, an aunt, a grandmother, friend, or foster mother, I will be taking my mum to Royale Chulan Seremban to enjoy a sweet High tea moment filled with laughter, fun, flower arrangements, Best dress mom (as long as you wear something unique in yellow, white or black!) and the heavenly food and beverages.
Becoming a mother for all of us meant joining a unique group of women who live similar experiences and understand the challenges/struggles, joys and pride of motherhood. Everyone’s route may have been different, but we are no less mothers. Someone described it as ‘otherhood’, but I don’t think we need a distinction. The commonality of motherhood means that no matter your route to or form of parenting, you will do it in your own unique way and be the better for it.
Self becomes secondary for a time, fear/guilt become your constant companions and you wear so many hats that you sometimes wonder just who you are. Counsellor, referee, chef, diplomat, housekeeper, finder of lost things, chauffeur, trainer, villain, banker, cleaner, project support officer, social schedular/secretary/PA, nurse, storyteller, juggler, coach, cheerleader, font of knowledge and so much more is included in our role. But we relish them all because the rewards are priceless.
When we’re feeling sad and lonely, we can count on our dearest mothers for comfort. A warm hug from her can make us feel at home and one phone call from her can silence our worries away. The undeniable love we receive from our mothers makes the world sweeter and a little bit more special. And it is for this reason that we have Mother’s Day to celebrate and honor her. So to all our mothers and mother figures: Happy Mother’s Day and thank you for all the adventures and for always knowing what’s best!
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